Cara Merangsang Organ Intim Wanita

Sebelum memulai ‘pertempuran’ dengan pasangan, wanita kebanyakan ingin dirangsang dan dimanjakan. Tujuannya agar selesai melakukan hubungan intim, kedua pasangan merasakan kepuasan dan kenikmatan.

Rangsanglah bagian klitoris wanita untuk membakar gairahnya. Rangsangan yang dilakukan pada bagian klitoris akan membuat wanita menjadi ketagihan. Klitoris berbentuk seperti kuncup yang berada sedikit di atas bagian depan vagina wanita, di ujung inner labia / labia minora.

Ukuran dan bentuk klitoris pada wanita berbeda-beda, tetapi pada umumnya berukuran 1/8 sampai 3/8 inchi. Klitoris wanita memiliki banyak ujung syaraf yang membuatnya sangat peka jika mendapat rangsangan. Berikut 6 langkah membakar gairah wanita.

1. Kata-kata : Selain sentuhan langsung, untuk membuat mereka bergairah, dibutuhkan perhatian pada pikirannya, tidak hanya pada tubuhnya. Ucapkan kata-kata indah dan romantis. Bisikan kata-kata lembut di telinganya, apa yang akan Anda lakukan padanya atau mengungkapkan sudah bagaimana terangsangnya Anda

2. Jari tangan : Setelah mengucapkan kata-kata romantis, mulailah mainkan jari jemari anda disekitar klitorisnya. Namun sebelum ‘menggerayanginya’ pastikan semua jari anda sudah bersih. Jari-jari Anda sangat cekatan, pergunakanlah sebagai suatu keuntungan bagi Anda. Usaplah pahanya dulu kemudian lakukan juga pada bagian-bagian lain di sisi-sisi klitoris, termasuk labia-nya, sebelum secara lembut menyentuh klitorisnya. Sentuhan lembut lebih cocok untuk kebanyakan wanita. Jika dia menginginkan lebih keras, dia pasti akan memintanya sendiri.

3. Lidah : Selain sentuhan jari-jari anda, lidah atau bibir Anda adalah alat terbaik untuk bisa membantunya mendapatkan orgasme yang luar biasa. Pelumas dan kehangatan yang dimiliki mulut sangatlah cocok untuk melakukan oral seks. Tentunya ditambah juga dengan kemampuan Anda untuk menggabungkan sensasi yang ditimbulkan dengan aksi bibir dan lidah Anda. Jika Anda sudah cukup memahami bagian klitoris ini, cobalah lakukan hisapan kecil dengan mulut Anda pada klitorisnya dan melepasnya saat dia akan orgasme.

4. Pelumas : Jika anda ingin merasakan sensasi baru, cobalah berikan sedikit pelumas pada klitorisnya. Memang sudah pasti pelumas adalah kunci penting untuk menghindari rasa tidak nyaman ketika Anda merangsang bagian ini, tetapi juga jangan terlalu terpaku dengan pandangan untuk selalu membeli pelumas dengan tipe terbaru, pelumas jenis lama pun sudah cukup untuk memberinya kepuasan yang luar biasa.

5. Penis : ‘Senjata’ andalan pria ini merupakan bagian penting setelah foreplay dilakukan. Selama penetrasi, bagian sensitif tubuh Anda ini tidak akan banyak menyentuh klitorisnya. Sebelum melakukan penetrasi, cobalah menggesek-gesekan penis Anda di antara bagian kaki dan pelvisnya. Dengan melakukan gerakan ini akan membuat organ vital Anda ini bisa mengenai bagian labia-nya dan bisa menjadi tahapan sebelum langsung menuju ke klitorisnya.

Positions - Wheel barrow

The man enters from behind (she should either have very strong arms or lean on something) and then lifts her up by the upper thighs or pelvis. She also can wrap her legs around his waist.

Bear in mind that this is quite an athletic position and also has much comedy potential. It's also useful for collecting leaves from the garden and putting them on the compost heap although doing this during the daytime is not to be recommended. The very adventurous could even have wheelbarrow races at parties but do check with the other people there before attempting this!

Positions - 69 (Soixante-neuf)

Is this a position or isn't it? Well, although it doesn't involve actual 'sex' per-se, it's a hot favourite.

Both partners give and receive oral sex – cunnilingus and fellatio at the same time. By necessity, a figure of 69 is described with one partner kneeling above the other facing the other way. Potential problems with this position include a lack of concentration. Many people find it difficult to continue giving oral sex whilst being stimulated orally. The more determined of the two will probably come off better in this case.

Positions - The X Position

Very deep penetration with this one – so much so that some experts recommend it for conception.

On ejaculation the penis is positioned right at the opening of the cervix thereby shortening the distance the sperm has to travel.

To do this the woman has to lift her knees up to her chest and hook them over the man's shoulders – this allows the man to easily press his pubic bone against the clitoris. X marks the spot.

Positions - doggy

This position allows deep penetration and the animal instinct in everyone is brought to the fore.

Be warned: men do tend to ejaculate quite quickly in this position so if you're after a long session, maybe go for another position.

Rear entry also allows for stimulation of the G-spot as the penis is in contact with the front wall of the vagina. Clitoral stimulation has to be performed with the hands. Women can indulge in fantasies in this position as they can't see their partner and the man can see his penis doing the work which is a turn on for him.

Carpet burns can be a hazard with this one but a little planning can overcome that problem.

Positions - Woman on Top

In this position the man relinquishes control to the woman who can decide on the angle and depth of penetration, and he gets to lie back and enjoy himself.

This position can also help the man control his orgasm but make sure that penetration occurs only once he's rock hard. Lowering yourself onto a semi-erect penis can cause it quite some damage.

In this position, both his hands are available for whatever purpose seems right (and there's lots you can do with them) and although women might not be keen on the idea of their breasts wobbling around in front of someone, you can be sure he's very pleased about it.

By leaning backwards, women can achieve G-spot stimulation and do not necessarily have to face him. If you do want to face his toes, let him know you're about to turn before you do it or start that way. A surprise turn may just twist things too far!